You Will Not Always Win

** This post was written two years ago. Reposted as a reminder as we go into the holidays and a new year to never give up. A few weeks ago, I was talking to a popular beauty blogger and her husband, and he said, ‘How do you handle failure when everyone’s...

Why I Quit My Celebrity Gossip Blog

On those days you feel like giving up. Never forget your “Why”.  A year ago today I quit my celebrity gossip blog “Necole Bitchie.” I remember it like it was yesterday. There seemed to be a huge weight that lifted off of my shoulder as I...

She Didn’t Quit

That girl that you follow that you want to be like, that has the “perfect” career, the “perfect relationship, and/or the “perfect” life — the one who you consider #goals, she’s been stressed before. She’s woken up...

I Shall Not Waste Another Day Being Unhappy

The most profound moment I’ve had this year was when I realized I could not go another day without smiling. Happiness is a choice. Up until around February of this year, I found myself lying in bed in the fetal position often while being bothered and frustrated...

A Distorted Perception Of Love

My mother and I were best friends… Until the day she defined love for me. Four months earlier, I came home from school to find a man sitting in our living room. He was tall, brown skin, hazel eyes and built like he may have played football. At first, I thought...

A Perfect Smile: Is It Everything?

Growing up, I was never told I was beautiful. Ever. I heard people use that word to describe my best friend. I heard people use that word to describe babies, but I was never personally told, “You are beautiful. You’re gorgeous!  You’re pretty!”...